Why…
Why…

How many times do I have to try to tell you
That I’m sorry for the things I’ve done, ooh. ooh, ooh
But when I start to try to tell you
That’s when you have to tell me
Hey… this kind of trouble’s only just begun
I told myself too many times
Why don’t you ever learn to keep your big mouth shut
That’s why it hurts so bad to hear the words
That keep on falling from your mouth
Falling from your mouth
Falling from your mouth
Tell me
Why…

Why…

Why by Annie Lennox

It may surprise you to learn that the only difference between green olives and black olives is ripeness; unripe olives are green, whereas fully ripe olives are black. Olive oil is a precious commodity in the world today. Millions of people have been consuming this natural and healthy product for many years. However, as trends indicate, a considerable number of people are turning to this essential oil due to its nutritional and beneficial aspects. As such, it’s common to come across an olive oil supplier who is not selling authentic products. Why would people settle for fake olive oil?

The meaning of WHY is for what cause, reason, or purpose with what intention, justification, or motive.

In an ideal world, every person would create, communicate, and live a purpose firmly grounded in its relationships. People are born and survive past puberty, because they uniquely meet some set of prepubescent needs. They succeed and grow when their purpose remains fresh and when they connect it to their friends and families.

In evaluating whether you have effectively articulated your reason for being, you will want to consider the following questions: Is my stated purpose relevant to a set of friends or others with the potential to become friends? Is my purpose unique? What hole would be left in the community if I disappeared?

Am I the rightful owner of my purpose? Can I fulfill my life more effectively and efficiently than another by being a better version of myself?

I am “me” because of a combination of factors, including my genetics, experiences, environment, and consciousness. My individuality is shaped by my unique genetic makeup, which influences physical and cognitive traits. Additionally, my experiences throughout life, including upbringing, education, relationships, and personal choices, contribute to shaping my identity and how I see the world around me.

Consciousness plays a significant role in defining a person’s sense of self. It is the awareness you have of your own existence, thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Your consciousness allows you to reflect upon your identity and perceive yourself as a distinct individual.

Ultimately, the question of “why am I me?” delves into deep philosophical and existential inquiries about the nature of self and consciousness. It’s a profound and complex question that different philosophies, religions, and scientific perspectives offer varying perspectives on.

I have been asked why I felt the need to come out of the closet publicly. As much as I appreciate the honesty of the question, the question of itself reflects someone’s comfort with the me they met rather than the me they are now meeting. I had to come out of the closet to meet the real me.

Coming out of the closet, which typically refers to revealing and owning one’s identity, is a deeply personal decision that individuals make based on their unique circumstances, feelings, and needs. Coming out allowed me to embrace my true self and live authentically, which has led to improved self-esteem, self-acceptance, and overall well-being. No longer hiding or suppressing a significant aspect of my identity has promoted a sense of internal congruence. Being the me God made me to be makes more sense now.

It’s important to note that coming out is a deeply personal process, and the decision to do so should always be made on an individual’s terms and when they feel ready. It’s essential to consider one’s safety, support system, and personal circumstances before coming out, but for me, that was the price of authenticity.

Being authentic has numerous benefits and is often considered a valuable trait. Embracing my authentic self means accepting who I truly me, which includes my strengths, weaknesses, values, and passions. It allows me to develop a positive self-image and a sense of self-worth, leading to increased self-confidence and self-empowerment. By being authentic, you give yourself permission to live a life aligned with your true desires and values.

Trying to be someone I’m not or constantly wearing a mask has been emotionally exhausting and has lead to feelings of disconnection, stress, and anxiety. Being authentic has allowed me to express my true thoughts, feelings, and emotions, which has enabled my emotional well-being. 

I have found that authenticity is closely tied to personal growth and fulfillment. So by embracing who I am and expressing my true self, has allowed me to explore my passions, talents, and interests freely. Authenticity has opened doors for personal development, learning, and the pursuit of my aspirations. I feel enabled to live a life that feels meaningful and aligned with my authentic purpose and why wouldn’t I want that for another, so I share. I am convinced that my authenticity can inspire and positively influence others. My hope is my authenticity can create a ripple effect that fosters a culture of acceptance and love.

My being authentic doesn’t mean me trying to perfect or without flaws. It means embracing my true self, being honest with myself and others, and living in alignment with my values and beliefs. For the longest time, I hated myself. I wasn’t what the world accepted and so the personal conflict went. Authenticity is a journey of self-discovery and growth and accepting your true self which in turn can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life. 

You are a lot like me in many ways. You may not need to come out of the closet, but you may be living your life for others and not for yourself in some way. This journey of authenticity can be exciting. Won’t you join me?