I came out of the closet a few yers ago. I have been processing my identity for a long time and am in no way finished processing. As a result of my processing, I now understand and realize more and more my desire to live into the fullness of who God made me to be… Read More How Did I Get Here
For years I have preached Jesus’ two commandments, “love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul mind and strength and the second one like it, love your neighbor as yourself”. I preached that and meant it. It wasn’t until I felt God pushing me out of the closet that I realized that I… Read More I Love Me Not No More
I came out of the closet to the world on October 12, 2022. Holy shit! Talk about a wave of emotions! I came out of the closet to my wife three yers ago. I came out to my family earlier this year. I have been talking with fellow pastors over the last couple of years… Read More Detonating the Walls of Closet Life
I plan to write a great deal more but let me share these thoughts as a beginning of our dialogue together. I hope you are alright. You’ve experienced something nobody should ever have to experience. What happened to you was rape. It’s something that those two men should have never done to you. You feel… Read More Letter to my 10yo Self
Honesty is nice in theory, but not everyone can handle total, brutal honesty. In my life, I have spent too much time trying to get a good read on people before being brutally honest with them. I have decided for them that they cannot handle my whole truth, so I never gave it to them.… Read More Coming Out Authentic
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